Posted by: speifer | April 4, 2010

The Wonder of Hope

Matthew has been in a sentimental mood lately. My guess is because he has been at RVA since second grade, and graduation is in July. So much to my surprise, he put on the newest Neil Diamond CD, Hot August Night/NYC. As we listened to the first song, I started to ponder how impossible it would be to pick his greatest song, or even the best recording of his biggest hits. But while the opening version of Holly Holy might suggest “majestic” or “historic,” I’m leaning to “seminal,” which while I’m not exactly sure what it means, I kind of like the sound of it. During that song, Ben and Katie had the following discussion:

Ben: Katie likes Holly Holy!

Katie: (enraged) I DO NOT!

Ben: You like Holly Holy!!

Katie: So what if I do? You like LOTS of songs that aren’t any good.

I am not exactly sure what this means except that the teen age years look to be exciting ones.

JT’s finance Janelle won a full ride at the doctoral program at the University of Virginia to study to be a psychologist. She graduates from Wake Forest in May and will go to Virginia. After a year to finish at Wake, JT will marry her and join her in Virginia. Exciting times!

JT spent his first summer at Wake studying in Paris. His second year at Wake he spent the second semester studying in New Zealand. This summer he has won a grant to study coffee plantations in Hawaii. I went to Northern Illinois University in Dekalb, Illinois, and was so overwhelmed with its beauty that I never ever wanted to leave the campus. That is what I keep telling myself.

We had a student accepted into Stanford, three into Cornell, one into Yale, two into Duke and one into MIT this year. Normally that is reason to rejoice, but several kids haven’t had any doors open for them yet. For my Korean kids, if this door doesn’t open they won’t have many options. It is so hard on kids to see their friends get into colleges and it hasn’t happened for them. Matthew has been accepted to many colleges, but none of the financial aid packages come close to helping him get into college without taking a huge debt load. We need a few miracles.

We had the chance to go to a school with a new computer center, and the computer teacher reported something extraordinary to me. Students were skipping lunch in order to have more time on the computer. For many of these kids, lunch is the only sure meal of the day. The teachers have had to close the center at lunch to make sure they all eat.

A few weeks ago, I was at a school and a mother came up to me and wanted to speak to me. She was so poor, but she had a smile on her face that wouldn’t stop. She told me the sad details of her life, but she stopped and said, “I don’t care. My daughter is learning computer. I tell you, we have hope.”

I saw her daughter, who eats two meals a day if she is really lucky. Her clothes were tattered. But she was so excited about the next computer class she was dancing around the building.

Hope can get you through lots of tough times. If you have hope, you can put up with so much.

There is nothing like the wonder of hope. Thank you for providing it to so many.

Your pal,
Steve

P.S.  This is our latest video that Matthew put together:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gPndxlJfNM

If you would like to contribute …
Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

Posted by: speifer | March 14, 2010

The Joy of Major Problems

Being in Kenya has taught me a new way to pray.

I walk across our campus and am surrounded by wonderful young people. Some are encouraged to pray for their safety. Some pray for their futures.

I pray that Jesus will give me a water balloon that I can throw at their heads.

And I pray it loudly.

I’ve found that nothing brings people together as when an old guy prays, “Lord Jesus, please give me a full water balloon that I can throw at Josh’s fat head.”

Students have asked why I do it, and I remind them that Scripture says to ask Him for ALL things.

I had a student tell me it wasn’t very nice. I responded by saying, “Lord Jesus, please make the water balloon I throw at her extra cold.”

And they say I can’t relate to young people.

This is a month that included a boomslang on a little kid’s backpack and had a senior getting a concussion from running into a gazelle on his motorcycle. There has been more illness, and more lingering illness, than any time in our 11 years. The whole place is exhausted, and we are all trying to hang in there until the end of the term.

So when the first African student in 104 years got accepted to MIT, I saw people who were so sick of bad news and so ready to rejoice that there was much jumping and yelling and crying. It is hard to explain what something like that means when you are an isolated school surrounded by baboons, but it is pretty great indeed.

Great news is always a wonder, and we received some of the greatest news ever. JT is engaged to the lovely Janelle, and they are planning to get married after he graduates in May of 2011. It is such an exciting stage of life, and we are so fortunate to have gotten to spend time with her last summer and really fell in love with her. Janelle invited Katie to be in the wedding, and I wished you could have seen her face when she got to look at the bridesmaid dress she will wear.

Three more computer centers were completed by the amazing Bruce Kinzer, and I was visiting a center at Karia. The children were working hard when I arrived, and I was visiting with the headmaster when Paul, the computer teacher, wanted to talk to me.

Paul wanted to tell me of a major problem he was having. I don’t know what you do when you’ve hit the limit of major problems you want to deal with, but the way I handled it was to let out a deep sigh. With a twinkle in his eye, he told me that after class was over, he would have to chase the children away from the center because they loved it so much they wanted to stay and keep learning.

Long-time readers might remember that back in 1999, we had a guy who worked in our yard named Fred. I was in charge of teaching computers to the 1st through 6th graders then and there was a drought, so I invited him to come to the lab with me. He was so afraid to touch a computer at first, but eventually he was doing replication and ghosting, and the school hired him to work full time in the lab.

He had asked to borrow a large sum of monies a few years ago, and we lent it to him. After years of paying on the loan, he just stopped paying and we stopped seeing him much. We’ve lent lots of money which has never been paid back, and we just assumed that this was another case in point.

Fred came by today and paid off the rest of the note, which was a large sum of money. He let us know that he had three kids, he was the data base manager for the hospital, and he had used his monies to buy rental property. He now owns his own home and the three rental properties free and clear. He is a deacon in his church, and he is doing well. It was such a reminder to me that when He directs you to invest in people, sometimes you get to see the wonder of God in ways that most people don’t get to see.

We are in the process of building three more computer centers, so we will leave for furlough with 20 centers and 20,000 kids receiving a lunch each day. We don’t say it enough but we are so grateful for what you have done. The schools can continue with no problems; we have the infrastructure in place to continue the food if the monies are there.

We didn’t know how we would provide food for next term, but we have seen so many miracles. JT and Janelle raised over $8,000 at an event they sponsored at Wake Forest. Our school in Texas raised more than $38,000 at their annual auction.

And God made it rain. There has been the biggest crop in years, and there is so much maize the prices have come down significantly. We aren’t there yet, but suddenly we see a chance that wasn’t there before.

I am ashamed to admit that I don’t like having faith; I’d much rather have the monies than to trust Him for it. I say that, but when you see Him move, and you know it is only Him, that is the sweetest sight on the earth.

Your pal,
Steve

P.S. We will arrive back in Texas on July 29th. If your Sunday School or small group would consider us to make a presentation, we would be so grateful. We will be in the states for a year, and hope we get to see you or at least say hi.

Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

There started to be an unusual amount of illnesses, so the principal asked who could fill in for a sick home ec teacher. Nancy volunteered me, which for some mysterious reason received enormous laughter throughout the meeting. The principal sent out an email that night entitled “Save the Children,” which made the sad case of the horrors that the children would be exposed to if I taught the home ec class.

It turned out that what they had been exposed to was the H1N1 flu (aka Swine Flu), and there were so many people out that he was forced to call upon my skills in home ec. I am glad to report that there were no serious injuries, except to my pride when he sent out an email that night saying that there were three cases of food poisoning and would SOMEONE ELSE PLEASE teach home ec.

I had to do chapel this week, and so I realized that it was time for me to take a stand. I asked every student to go see the principal and ask him:  “Do you think you are being sensitive to Mr. Peifer’s feelings?” The killing blow was next; they were to wave their finger and say, “I don’t think you have been.”

And he thought I was just going to take it.

We have had over 100 cases of Swine Flu reported on a campus which holds 500 people. People are tired beyond tired. No one has had to be hospitalized, but people are pretty sick for a few days. We have tried to stay on campus because what would make many westerners sick might kill an African who has a weak immune system. Fortunately, the worst seems to have passed and things are settling down.

Before the illness hit, I was visiting a school and talking to the children. It was right after Christmas, and they were telling me about their holiday. I had RVA kids telling me about their feasts and new toys. In the same boasting spirit, a little boy came up to me and told me, “I have not been hungry in a whole week.”

That chills me. And we are only at 60% of what we need to feed all of the children for this term.  And I began to panic and try to think of the solutions to this. But He directed me to this scripture in Habakkuk:

I will stand at my watch
And station myself on the ramparts;
I will look to see what he will say to me,
And what answer I am to give to this complaint.

We’re still standing.

Your pal,
Steve

If you would like to contribute …
Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world. If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!
Posted by: speifer | December 23, 2009

Christmas 2009

We know your secret identity.

You go around disguised as doctors and teachers and salespersons and stay at home moms, but we know who you really are.

You are the people who feed almost 20,000 students a lunch every school day.

You are the people who have built 17 solar computer centers with another 3 scheduled for completion in 2010.

You are the people who have heard the cry of the children of Africa, and you have not made peace with it.

We are so grateful for you, and your secret is safe with us.

This has been a challenging year in so many ways, but I can look anyone in the eye and say:

We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.

  • Steve continued as the director of college guidance at RVA, and continues to see his students as the treasure that made a man sell everything he had for the sake of the treasure of the field.
  • Nancy has excelled as the head of World Languages (it sounds a little off to say Foreign Languages when you are in Africa) and continues making our home such a joy and pleasure.
  • JT is a junior at Wake Forest and has just become an RA.
  • Matthew is having a great senior year at Rift Valley Academy and has been accepted to seven colleges at this writing.
  • Ben loves third grade and loves to read about US history.
  • Katie loves third grade and loves to do crafts with mom.

At this point, our plan is to take a furlough year when Matthew graduates in July. We have been out in Africa for five years with a one-term break to get JT started in college, but if we take a year, we can be there for Matthew’s first year of college and get to see JT graduate in 2011. And we are tired; we are flirting with burn out right now, and we need to recharge the batteries.

Our wish for you this season was better said by someone much greater than me:

I hear music in the sound of children laughing.
It’s a beautiful noise that fits you like a song.
Makes you wanna have a very merry, holly holy,
cherry cherry Christmas time the whole year long.

Cherry Christmas Everyone!

Nancy, Steve, Matthew, JT, Katie & Ben Peifer

Check out our newest video:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHrrUy5-EmQ

Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

(Please do NOT send checks directly to Kenya.)

Posted by: speifer | December 10, 2009

He Is Too Fat to Put On the Belt: Becoming an Honorary Masai

Your neighbors may have unusual days, but I bet I can beat you on this one. Our friends the Mitchells had a baboon jump on their roof, and he fell through the ceiling. No matter how your neighbor’s day was, it was better than having a 150 lb. baboon in the middle of their home. They weren’t home so no one was hurt, but the baboon made a real mess of things, and trust me:  cleaning up after an angry baboon is not the recipe for the beginning of a festive holiday season.

On the last day of school, the local schools give out prizes to the top students. I was asked to go to Oweso, which is a Masai school and very remote. The first time I visited the school eight years ago, a little girl screamed because she had been told by her parents that if she was bad, the white man would come and EAT her. They know me now and greet me without fear.

It was a study in how cultures can change. Because of the food, the population of the school has doubled in eight years, with virtually no drop outs. Students who live in mud huts are learning computers, and they delighted in the fact that I scored the lowest of all of them on the computer exam. One of them asked if I did poorly to encourage them, and I had to confess that while I wished that is what had happened, they were just all smarter than me.

We don’t want to be cultural imperialists, and there are so many things that I appreciate about the Masai culture.  A lock on the door would be a shock; they are a people who share what they have. They aren’t ruled by their possessions, and they love nature. They really know what it is to have a community.

But there are toxic parts of their community that are truly awful. It isn’t uncommon for 50-year-old men to marry 10-year-old girls. Drunken beatings are common. Women are treated horribly in this culture; they have no legal rights, and once your husband dies, the biggest cause of a Masai woman’s death is starvation.

What was interesting was that the community is starting to address these issues. The students did a skit about an old Masai wanting to marry a 10-year-old girl, and they mocked him during the skit. Then a young woman recited a poem she had written that went like this:

I want to be a pilot.
I want to be a doctor.
I don’t want to fetch water.
I have dreams.

This wasn’t happening from external forces; as people become educated, they begin to see what they need to cast off. The Masai have clung to their ways longer than any other tribe, but even they are changing.

Having a conversation with a Masai is different than talking to someone in the states. You might find the following as regular conversation topics in the states:  “Tough economy, huh? How bout them Cubbies? Were you able to purchase several copies of the new Neil Diamond Christmas CD before it sold out?”

Maybe it was just the day, but many of the Masai conversations center around circumcision. When I asked why certain students wore certain items, I was told, “Because he was circumcised recently.” When I asked which students got to sit in front, I was told, “Those who are circumcised.” If you are like me, it caused me to cringe a little harder each time. I probably wouldn’t make a good Masai.

But to my surprise, I was asked to become an honorary member of their tribe. They told me they had never had a white man be a part of their tribe before, but they were so grateful and they felt like I was a part of them. As I received the honor, I told them that since I was now Masai, I would challenge them to a jump off. (The Masai are legendary for their height and leaping ability.) To prove it, I jumped in front of them, which instead of providing them a moment of awe, inspired the biggest laughter I have experienced in Kenya. The chief embraced me after I spoke and said, “You have the face of an old man but the heart of a boy,” which I’m hoping is a good thing, but I’m not sure.

At this point, I had my own Greek chorus. There was a young boy who decided to add color commentary to the proceedings. He started loud and got louder, and he had the most infectious belly laugh I’ve ever heard.

Young Boy: The old man is saying he can jump higher than US!!

I was supposed to give out prizes, and I pretended to drop the first prize.
Young Boy: He almost dropped the thermos!!

As I started to give away a watch, I pretended to put one in my pocket.
Young Boy: He is putting a watch in his pocket!!

Then the fateful moment came when they presented me with the tribal belt:
Young Boy: HE IS TOO FAT TO WEAR THE BELT!!!

I take it back. That got a bigger laugh than my leaping ability.

Toward the end of the day, a Masai mother was chosen to speak to the group. She was a tall, regal looking woman, and she was very soft spoken and articulate. She said that she was proud to be a Masai, and she was proud of the way of her people.

But then her voice got very small and she said, “I have dreams of a better life for my children.”

The parents were all invited to the computer center, and to watch them marvel was a sight I will be grateful that I experienced for the rest of my life.

When it was time to leave, I realized that this unusual life we are living is really having an impact because of what you have done for these people. It is those kinds of days that have put me in the trap I fell into several years ago.

I saw the needs, and the good that the food and the computers did, and I started to operate out of guilt. If only I worked harder, I could feed more kids. If only I was a better communicator, I would build more centers.

And the guilt caused me to take any speaking engagement I could get. It bore no fruit and it was hard on my family. After several years of this, I went to the Lord and apologized for operating out of guilt, and I was reminded that He does it all, and only He can grow the seed.

So I laid it all down. I had one more speaking engagement in Georgia, and I made the speech. It was over, and I knew I was doing the right thing.

The next day I received an email from someone who attended that last speech. He told me he was the co-author of Tom Landry’s autobiography and he wanted to do a book with us. He has several best sellers to his name.

He told me I needed an agent, and the agent that agreed to work with us represents Chuck Swindoll and Beth Moore, the biggest authors in the Christian world.

We just signed a contract with Zondervan, the biggest Christian publisher in the world, to come out with a book in 2011.

This is like the CNN award. It came out of the blue, and we had nothing to do with it. When you lay it all down, that is when He likes to make His move.

Your pal,
Steve

P.S. It is time for another contest. Gregg Lewis, our co-author, has suggested the title of the book be “Shifting Out of Neutral.” The publisher likes “Ending the Tears of Hunger.” Nancy likes “A Dream So Big.” My suggestion was “The Magnificent Story of My Fascinating Life.” But we want to hear your suggestions for the title. First prize will be an autographed copy! Second prize is two autographed copies. Enter today!

New videos:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnmyLHO3imQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EB2EbFvFgkg

Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

(Please do NOT send checks directly to Kenya.)

Posted by: speifer | November 15, 2009

Great Joy; Crazy Sorrow

They say that humor is universal, but I struggle. It was a windy day, and I told a bunch of students that if they weren’t careful, they would take flight just like the Flying Nun. As they gave me puzzled blank looks, I made an urgent note to myself to UPDATE CULTURAL REFERENCES. As they stared at me, one of them said, “Nuns can fly?”

We had over thirty colleges visit in the past ten days, which is both thrilling and exhausting. Most RVA kids will never see a college before they show up, so being able to talk to reps is such an important opportunity for them. There were lots of eyes opened and lots of good conversations, but it is always nice to throw in a miracle.

Our musical for the term was Seven Brides for Seven Brothers. The guy that is our director is one talented person, and it was pretty spectacular. (Matthew was one of the brothers.) I was sitting next to the rep from a Christian college in Illinois who is African American, and when the sisters came on stage, she gasped. There were two African sisters and one Korean sister, and she whispered to me, “This isn’t stunt casting; this is just how it is here!” The grin didn’t leave her face the whole evening.

The miracle was this. Joel is a senior from RVA, and he had applied to St. Mary’s in California. St. Mary’s wasn’t here, but a rep from Messiah College was here, and they are best friends. The Messiah rep contacted the St. Mary’s rep and said, “You have GOT to take this kid; he stole the show!” And a college that was going to go to committee on Joel because he didn’t look strong enough has accepted him in the fall. Figuring out the odds of this happening would probably bust a Cray.

Two weeks ago, I visited a school that we work with. The kids know me well at this school; when I drive up, they all yell “Peifer” and greet me. I didn’t realize the extent of my fame, and how isolated they are, when another car pulled up a few weeks ago, and they ran towards the car and yelled “Not-Peifer!” The kids are thriving, our computer teacher is good, and they had a final in Excel that I don’t think I would have passed, but they did great on it.

They were full of life, and as I left there I thought the thing I never communicate is how fun this can be. The kids love to laugh, and I walked away thinking: “This is working. I get to be part of something that helps little kids.”

It is hard to explain how exhilarating it can be to do this work. It fills holes that are deep inside of you. There is a Scripture that says “My food is to do the will of Him who sent me” that I always figured was for holy people, but it even works for people like me.

And then there are weeks where everything is stripped bare, and stuff you’ve seen a million times hit you like you have never seen it before.

I had the video camera and I thought it would be fun to film students talking about what they were thankful for. Some of it was funny and some of it was touching, but then a little boy dressed in rags came up and told me that he was thankful for his clothes.

Usually I can hold it together until I drive off; I couldn’t that day. I had tears running down my face as I thought of how much I have and how much he didn’t have. I ran off like a fool full of crazy sorrow. I thought of how much need there was, and how little we could do, and I felt like giving up.

Sometimes it just gets you sad.

Your pal,
Steve

Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

Posted by: speifer | October 26, 2009

The 21 Cent a Month Unfunded Mandate

This just in from the Chuck Baker School of Management. Kids who get out of line can earn a detention on Saturday mornings. The biggest punishment is having to get up at 8am on a Saturday, although I famously led one that involved picking up trash on campus and singing Neil Diamond songs. For some mysterious reason, I have never been asked to lead detention again.

When Pinewood Derby occurs, Chuck counts on those students in detention to do chores and errands on the big day. Since there were only two students having to serve detention, Chuck had an innovative way of staffing Pinewood Derby.

He called it Detention Credits. The concept was pretty simple. Assign a kid detention for the weekend under the assumption that he or she will probably get a detention at some point, and they could bank the credit they had because they had always served it during Pinewood Derby. This was not embraced by administration, but my limited knowledge of educational reform seems to indicate that progressive ideas take time to implement.

We had multi-cultural day at RVA last week, and Nancy was one of the ones who were in charge of it. It was a wonderful day full of skits and songs, and the most emotional part of the day is when each of the 25 different countries represented on the campus this year are represented by a student holding their home flag as they walked up to the stage.

I looked at these kids, and the thing that struck me was how brave they are. They leave their parents at such young ages and live on a campus without heat or air conditioning, sharing rooms with strangers on a campus so remote there are baboons and monkeys about.

It is an honor to be around them. Remind me of that the next time I want to harm one of them.

I was at one of the lunch program schools recently, and out of a thousand students, three hundred were not receiving lunch. I asked the headmaster why, and he said that he did not charge for the food, but he charged 15 shillings a month (about 21 cents) to pay for the cook, the firewood and the water it took to cook the food.

At first I was angry, but the more I thought about it, I thought:  I have given an unfunded mandate. I’ve told them they can’t charge for food, but I don’t provide the other stuff they need to provide the food. I pondered this a long time.

What was really great was that before I could do anything, the other headmasters met with him and explained how he could use part of his operating budget to pay for firewood and water. They explained to him the value of the program, and I suspect they let him know what a jerk he would be if he messed up and I got cranky.

But the deeper you get in, the more complex it gets. Helping without hurting while being cultural sensitive is a lot harder than it looks.

But the hardest thing of all was thinking about three hundred kids who couldn’t afford 21 cents a month. I know how tough the economy is in the United States right now, but can you imagine not being able to come up with 21 cents a month?

Three hundred kids, about a third of that school, can imagine it very well.

Your pal,
Steve

P.S.  RVA REALLY needs a French teacher and a Spanish teacher next year. Let us know if you are interested.

P.P.S.  Kenya Kids Can is supported by the prayers and financial contributions of people like you, from all over the world.  If you are able, please make a donation today to either the “Peifer School Lunch Program – 000339″ or the “Peifer Computer Center Program – 000336.” Steve and Nancy raise their own funding; to support their family directly, make your contribution to “Peifer, Stephen C and Nancy J – Support 047930001.” Thanks in advance!

Posted by: speifer | October 9, 2009

The Smallest Box of Tea

After my family, the short list of my favorite people to spend time with would have to include Chuck Baker, the shop teacher at RVA. Long time readers might remember that I’ve written about him several times before (see the post titled “21 Years and Four Months“). Chuck came to RVA after the death of his wife when he was in his 60′s and became our head shop teacher. He is a man full of the love of the Lord and good cheer. It feels very strange to be a man in his 50′s writing about a man in his 70′s, but he may be the most lovable person I’ve ever met.

But all that pales in comparison to his unique ability to lead a meeting. The Chuck Baker School of Management produces meetings that this former corporate pig could never conceive of. Chuck is in charge of our Pinewood Derby and his meetings regarding it are legendary. It would be hard to put into words how truly amazing they are, but in lieu of a video, highlights include:

  1. The meetings begin at 6:03, not six. According to the Chuck Baker School of Management, if you start a meeting at 6, it is just another meeting. If you start at 6:03, you get people’s attention. This concept gets a little funnier every year.
  2. It is VERY important to have an agenda, but also a time scheme that goes with it. It then becomes more important to constantly reference the time in relation to the agenda. “Ok, it is 6:41 and we are on agenda item 17 and we should really be on agenda item 22, so we really need to pick it up here.”
  3. Stories that have nothing to do with pinewood derby, cars, woodshop or anything that isn’t 7 degrees away become VITAL in the meeting. Somehow, every year, a Volkswagen ad that ran in Life magazine in the 60′s gets mentioned.
  4. All meetings MUST include the phrase “I’m busier than a one armed paper hanger … with an itch.”

There is nothing better than a Chuck Baker meeting. I would write more, but I’m supposed to be on my second point right now so I really have to pick up the pace.

We saw God use you all to produce a miracle last month. We received enough monies to completely provide food for almost 20,000 students at 34 schools. We just made it; every gift was critical. We are grateful beyond what we can say. For many students, it is about the only food they are getting right now. Thank you so much. All monies collected now go towards the beginning of the school year in January.

I was getting ready to run to the states for a two-week trip to speak at a conference and visit some colleges. Tabitha’s mother came by my office right before I was scheduled to leave. She is very ill with full blown AIDS and just getting to my office was a huge effort. She brought with her the smallest box of tea you could buy so I could bring it to her daughter.

It’s almost impossible to understand, unless you live here, how much that box of tea represented. You might compare it to buying someone a car when you were out of work, but that doesn’t even get there. I’m sure there were missed meals and extra work found to somehow pay for that tea. I can’t quite imagine the sacrifice involved.

I held that smallest box of tea and I knew for the first time what the Scripture meant about how the widow’s mite was the most significant gift of all.

Your pal,
Steve

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Posted by: speifer | August 24, 2009

The Vow

I am now a member of the Blender Community.

Perhaps I should explain. Perhaps the most important development to happen in my life in the last year was hearing from the Lord that I should make breakfast in the morning. Nancy has a first-period class; I didn’t have to get out until second period. It would take pressure off of her and allow me to develop gifts previously undeveloped.

To add to this, Nancy has been diagnosed as a diabetic. It was caught early, and so far diet has controlled it quite well. But making a nutritious breakfast became more important. Smoothies became a regular part of the morning. And then our blender died.

It isn’t easy to buy a blender in Kenya, so I set out to do research on blenders. And I discovered the Blender Community. Blender people have OPINIONS, and they are not shy about expressing them. To add to the fun, it is not important just to be right, but also to prove that the other person is WRONG. I promise you, you don’t want to be on the wrong side of the glass vs. plastic debate; it got ugly over there.

After reading more than I ever believed was possible to read about blenders, we bought one and have been very happy with it. So happy that as I tried to zip up a piece of luggage whose zipper had fallen off, I had the thought that I might actually join the Luggage Community.

I will give warning if I do. Too many exciting things are probably bad for your health.

87You enter a new family dynamic when your oldest brings home “the girl.” JT was here this summer doing an internship in the business office and he brought his special friend, Janelle, who was also doing a project with the girls at St. Edwin’s Orphanage. They met at Wake Forest, and it looks to be pretty serious. She certainly passed the family test; we all fell in love with her. Katie had the best line:  ”I think JT is going out with her because she reminds him of me.”

The rains haven’t come and it has gotten more desperate here. We had a meeting with all of our computer teachers, and they reported that the biggest challenge for them was to teach when students were crying because they were so hungry. The term ended with most schools running out of food 10-15 days before the end of the term; we just didn’t have the money to buy enough.

I had an incident with a local school recently. There is a computer center that both the primary school and the secondary school share. They border the same land; they are right next door. The secondary school headmaster had recently stopped his students from attending computer classes. I went to meet with him.

Me: Why can’t the students take computer classes?

Headmaster: They will not be able to take a class until you provide me with a computer for my office.

Me: No.

HM: Then they will not go.

Me: Fine. I am telling you also that I will no longer provide food to your school.

HM: (With a panic in his eyes) I have changed my mind.

Me: I don’t care. You will not threaten me.

HM: Brother, will you pray with me?

Me: I know what you are trying to do right now, and it is called manipulation. No, I won’t pray with you.

HM: You are not a very good missionary.

Me: I will tell you how bad of a missionary I am. The next time I come to this school and you are drunk (which was almost every time I went) I am going to beat you up.

HM: You are a very bad missionary.

88We worked out that I am not going to provide food for the first two weeks of school. If his students are regularly attending classes, we will add the food for them. And now, every time I go to the school, he has a student run and throw water on him.

I should add that he is in his 30′s and 6’2″. In my best days, many decades ago, I was a skinny wimp. Now I am a skinny wimp with a large gut, which is actually rather hard to pull off.

We are reminded often that we are guests in this country, and we need to defer. And mostly, I adhere to that.

Mostly.

During the break, a pilot and his mechanic from our mission were killed in a crash. You shouldn’t be surprised when people who put their lives at risk to help the poor are killed, but it still surprises you in how much it hurts. Each man left behind his wife and four children; it is just such a great loss.

You look to the hills when things are rough, but he directed me a little lower.

To a driver.

Joshua is an accountant who is in law school. His father runs a driving service, and you can always count on him. It isn’t safe for me to drive at night because of my poor night vision, and their service is a blessing when there is a late airport pickup. Recently, I was going to fly out and I scheduled a ride. Joshua picked me up, and since we were running ahead of schedule, I asked him if he wanted to stop for dinner.

He told me the most amazing story. When he was in high school, he and four friends started to meet together and pray for Kenya. During one prayer meeting, they felt led to make a vow:  they would all go to law school, they would all enter politics, and they would all work to bring justice to this land.

They are all in law school, and they still meet to pray. The odds of all of them remaining true to that vow, and for all of them to be accepted and be able to pay for law school, is beyond what I can measure.

I felt like I was hearing about something sacred and holy that is going to change this whole country.

Your pal,

Steve

Posted by: speifer | July 23, 2009

The War

2009_july12009_july2When it comes to cold, I am pretty darn stoic.

When it gets down in the 40s and we don’t have heaters here, I am widely admired for how I handle the temperature. I’ve found that yelling “I’m dying of the cold, and no one CARES” a dozen or so times a day does WONDERS for office morale. I’ve discovered that wearing a hoodie with the hood up under a winter coat is a wonderfully inviting image for impressionable young people who are nervous about college. Last week, when I could see my breath as I walked to the office, the joyful noises that came almost unbidden from my lips were probably an inspiration to all.

It is so good to be an inspiration. But I would trade being a role model to be warm.

Tabitha has had a tough life. Her father died when she was two years old. Her mother has AIDS. She has lived in a rented one room shack without power or water her whole life. No one can quite explain her sweetness of spirit, her brilliant mind, or her determination. There was a missionary couple who hired her to work for them, and they invested heavily into her.

The Howorths came to me and asked me to help her with studying in the United States. I told them that she needed to take the SAT. Many Kenyans desire to study in the US, and the SAT proves to be their undoing. Tabitha would get up at 4 a.m. and study with a solar flashlight we gave her. She did well enough that I began to contact colleges on her behalf.

2009_july3Warren Wilson College accepted her, and gave her a generous scholarship, but we were still $7,000 short. Before we had a chance to ask, an old friend wrote to us and said that he and his wife would provide the monies. A friend and colleague from Darlington School collected all sorts of great items for her to have. The Howorths wanted to provide her airline ticket. My sister and husband live fairly close, and offered to house her before school began.

She needed a passport. It should be a fairly easy process. You submit paperwork and pay your substantial fee, and it should be done. But Tabitha went to the passport office many many times and always got discouraging news. She actually had someone say, “I never have had an opportunity like that; why should you?” After 20 visits, each of which cost her a day of work and car fare, she was no closer.

I poured out my frustration to RVA’s accountant, who is a wonderful Kenyan man with many connections. He put us in touch with one woman at the office who offered to help. It took three more times, but 23 trips later, Tabitha has her passport.

The only other hurdle was to get her student visa. Since I have taken dozens of RVA students through the process in the last five years, I was pretty confident that it wouldn’t be a problem. We had all the paperwork, and we had paid all the substantial fees. We made an appointment and went to the Embassy.

Our appointment was scheduled for 8 a.m. We arrived at 7:30 a.m. and, after waiting outside in the rain with hundreds of other people with appointments, we got through security and she went to the first stage of the process, where they make sure you have paid your fees and have all the appropriate paperwork.

And she was rejected. The woman behind the counter threw her passport at her and told her to leave.2009_july4

She was rejected because she did not have a residential address. She has a PO box. Like 90% of all Kenyans. I am not often at a loss for words, but I had nothing to say as we left. We drove straight to the Kijabe post office and asked them for a residential address. They informed us that there were no residential addresses in Kijabe- only PO boxes.

I didn’t know what to do. Tabitha’s sponsor wrote and asked what had happened, and I informed her of the rejection. She had an upper-level government contact who wrote and asked what had happened.

Tabitha was rejected on a Thursday. The government contact wrote to me on Friday. On Tuesday, I received a call from the US Embassy inviting Tabitha to come to the Embassy on Wednesday for another appointment. This time, they didn’t keep her waiting. They only asked one question: Where did you hear about Warren Wilson College?

She was granted her visa on Wednesday. She is perhaps the most excited person on the planet, which makes me realize how much I took my own education for granted.

But I hurt for all the qualified candidates who have done everything right and get rejected for no good reason.

It is a reminder that we are in a war. There isn’t any easy ground to take anymore. Everything is a fight, and nothing is easy.

Most of the schools ran out of food last week. I got frantic calls from headmasters, but we just didn’t have any money left to buy additional food. What is happening is this: around 11 a.m., students leave school to go search and beg for food.

2009_july5I have been told that I’m not direct enough, so let me say it as clear as I can: We need more money to buy more food. I understand the horrible economy in the US, and please don’t give unless you are supposed to. But if you are supposed to, please give. We are way under the monies we need for the September through November term.

The guilt and disappointment I’ve felt in the past few weeks have been enormous. If only I was a better fund raiser; if only I was a better speaker; if only …

But He has done so many things to encourage us in the past few weeks.

RVA has a yearbook, and each year they dedicate the yearbook to a staff couple. On the night they presented the yearbook, I was leaning over to Nancy and telling her that I’d hoped my friend Wally and his wife would be chosen.

They announced our names. We were so surprised (I was; Nancy had figured it out) and so blessed to have the students pick us. We didn’t deserve it, but we so appreciated it. And the picture of me dancing in the yearbook will again be an inspiration to all who see it.

I was sitting in a computer center last week, and I was as tired and discouraged as I could remember. I had a little girl tell me her dream was to own a pair of shoes.

The class came in, and suddenly I was watching kids without shoes learn how to query a database. It was so exciting and so encouraging; the progress they are making is so exhilarating. It struck me that I’m in a war, and spend much of my time getting the crud kicked out of me. But watching those kids get a fairly difficult lesson was like a year of being beat up and then standing up and hitting the bully right in the mouth.2009_july6

Every once in awhile, we get to hit back, if we realize we are in a war.

I was at Njira Primary School today, which is the most remote school we provide food for. They were out of food, but I knew they had been given enough to make it through the term. I was suspecting theft, but then I discovered that there were two schools nearby that did not receive food … and Njira had shared their food with these other schools.

Somehow, in the war, that had to really hurt the other side.

Your pal,
Steve

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